1.26.2009

A Mom's Mom

I was born Jan. 27 1983.  7 lbs 15. oz.  20.5 inches long, and
In honor of getting older I thought I would share a few 
things about myself that you may not know.
1. I have a very embarrassing disease called I can't control my laughter. 
(lots of stories to go with that one)
2.  I can say no to any treat until you put them in front of me.
(another good reason Jared should do the grocery shopping)
3.  Biggest peeves - itchy stuff and stupid parents
(ya I'm working on this one)
4.  When I sleep I'm pretty much barricaded with pillows
(even when I'm not PG)
5.  One day I'm going back to school to get my nursing degree
(don't you feel closer already?)

Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday dear Michelle, you haven't changed much
since you were two.
I've come to realize the very sad truth, that you never really appreciate your mother until you become one.  So for my 26th birthday I would like to say thank you to my mom.  I am the sixth of seven children as is my mom.  A little mind boggling to me as I can barely keep up with one.  This is a picture of my mom's mom Ila, where we'll begin.
The Grandma where kisses and hugs never got old.  
She's been gone over 20 years, but I love and 
appreciate her now more than ever.
baby #1 - Jason   The one you want around if you ever need to knock someone's lights out.
#2 - Jeffrey   The one who's too smart for his own good.
#3 Amber - the one who cares.
#4 Stephanie - the one who shares.
#5 Melissa - the one you can trust.
#6 Me - the one who will let you fill in the blank.
#7 Camille - the one who understands me when I say things like
"Evelyn!  Which team do you play for?"
Historically my mom and I never got along very well, I was a smart
 mouthed teenager who knew it all and didn't need a mom.
  I'll never forget on my wedding day however when my mom 
reached over to hold my hand and I never wanted her to let go.
The sad truth is that the poor girl is still raising 7 children.  I don't know where I would be without her support, advice and babysitting skills ;).  Helping your kids with projects doesn't stop once they're out of elementary.  I can guarantee there isn't one thing that any of us have done that mom hasn't had a role in.  Thanks mom your the best.  I love just being able to hang out and talk with you, and I hope I can keep hangin' in there as you have always done.  I was thinking that somethings she used to do made no sense to me at all and drove me nuts, but now they are becoming a little too clear - for instance
~ crying because the house is a mess
~ reaching across the car to you when she had to slam on the brakes
~ dancing with and kissing my dad (a lot)
~ being the loudest mom in the crowd at sporting events
~ going yard selling
~family reunions
~ sharing meals at restaurants
~entering radio contests 
~ driving carpool in her pajamas
~ saying things like - "You're room looks like a bomb hit it"
~ taking care of others before herself
~ taking out frustrations on the poor dog
~not jumping on the trampoline for fear of wetting your pants
~ making us wash walls
 and one for my dad, 
~just watching the grass grow.
 I could go on and on, but I'll spare you.  
The point is I am becoming my mom, well maybe a very small version of her, but I'm so glad that I can always lean on her for strength.  I don't know what I would do with out her.  I saw a saying today, "Home is where you're mom is."  True, true.  One of these days I'll grow up and hopefully be a sliver of the person she  is.
Six kids ready for church and smiling.  How the heck?
5 girls ready for church with hair done and still smiling.
(I'm glad for now I have boys)

PS - Remember about a  year ago when I lost my camera.  Yup, it turned up at church.  For some reason Jared had mentioned it to a member of the bishop brick again a couple of weeks ago, and the bishop from the other ward recently asked them if someone had lost a camera.  Hooray, it was ours.  We had checked with people at church and looked around forever and nothing.  Crazy, crazy, that it shows up after almost a year. The sad part of the story is that when we were cleaning out our office to move things downstairs we seemed to gotten rid of battery chargers and cords to a camera that we thought was long gone.

11 comments:

Steph said...

That was an awesome post! I agree 100%, we do have a terrific mom! I know we would all be lost without her, and are very blessed to have such an amazing woman for our mom!
Happy Birthday! You are such a good example to us all. I am so glad I get to be your sister.
Have a fantastic day! I love you!

Kim said...

Happy Birthday Michelle! What a great post, it was fun to read and yes, I do feel like I know you a little better now. ;) Hope you have a great day!

Natalie said...

Happy Birthday! That post was great. I am simply amazed at how our parents were able to do things with a gazillion kids and not go crazy and yet with 2 I feel like I'm at my wits end. Go figure! Hope you have a great day Ü

Amber said...

Happy Birthdayto You! that was a great post! I loved the part about Grandma too. that picture is priceless! thanks for the trip down memory lane, it was fun.

And by the way, my house looks like a bomb hit it! Ha Ha... my kids know that saying well too!

Mel said...

Happy Birthday! What an awesome post! I totally agree with everything you say about not appreciating your mom until you are one! I don't think I would be able to be a mom without mine to go running to on a regular basis! Anyway, have a wonderful birthday!!:)

melissa said...

Happy Birthday!! We went and got your birthday ice cream after you left. Sorry. I guess we will have to do it again. We are obviously related when it comes to resisting treats:) Hope you had a great day. We do have fantastic parents and siblings don't we...

thecaldwells said...

Happy Birthday! I have thought of you all day and should have called. Jackson has told me about a millions times that you share the same birthday. I hope you had a great day! Also, love the post. So touching and I feel the same way! P.S. You are so beautiful and look the same as you did when you were little.

Heather said...

What a good post. Happy birthday! sounds like you have an awesome family. You are a good mom too.

Misty said...

Happy Birthday! You mom is definitely amazing! What would we do and where would we be without our moms? They are angels from Heaven!

Clayton and Amber said...

Cute post! I never new you were a "smart mouthed teenager!" Seriously, you fooled me. Hope you had a great birthday. The picture of Bronson in his highchair is so sweet. What a cute boy!

Julie said...

Nice Post. Happy Birthday! How awesome. I'm glad you had such a great mom to model. I LOVE all those pictures when you guys were kids. You are the cutest family. Your mom amazes me--seven kids! Phew! The things your mom used to do that never made sense to you until now are starting to make a lot of sense to me too.