the hair cut dilemma

I'm feeling ready to chop off my hair. Jared however always hates when I do this. I won't list the long list on one liners I've gotten after short haircuts. So please be honest because I need honesty here. Do I look better with short hair or long hair? Which hair suites my face the best - please be honest. Second question, blonde or brunette?

I'm not really sure if I'm picking the hair or the celebrity here. Really I just want someone to do my hair and make-up for me everyday so I can feel somewhat cute.

I found this article and thought it was interesting.

Why do men prefer long hair on women?

All the men who answered yes to the question, said they prefer a woman to have long hair because it sexy.There's just something about long flowing curly or wavy hair that they consider incredibly attractive. Like a reminiscence of the paintings of the Victorian era, women with long dresses and beautiful hair are very alluring. They equate long hair with being very feminine.

And guys love it when you use a certain type of shampoo, because on long hair it is more likely that they will be close enough to smell that scent. Some men like the smell of coconut, or other fruity scents in shampoo, or even ones that smell more like perfume. When your hair is down, they can nuzzle your neck and smell your hair at the same time. That's harder to do with shorter hair.

Another reason men prefer long hair on women?

They like to touch it, feel it and play with it. And they like to pull it. Not like when we were in grade school and they pulled on our pigtails. But grown up play definitely includes a little hair tugging. Or grabbing a handful while pulling you in for a passionate kiss. Men love long hair on women, it's just a fact!

And wearing your hair pulled up into a loose bun with a little hair out at the nape of the neck, is incredibly sexy. There are parts of a woman's body that men love; namely the back of the neck,the top of the shoulders, the hollow of your throat, the small of your back and the swell of the breasts.They love it when your hair is down and covering these parts. Like a gift waiting to be unwrapped.

A woman's hair is considered her "crowning glory" according to the bible. This is not to suggest that you shouldn't wear your hair short, but meaning that this is a woman's most alluring feature. Just as important as a pretty face,nice hair complements you as well. Whether it be long or short, you should wear it in a stylish and flattering manner. Some women have features that go along with short pixie styles, and other women look better with it long. It's really a matter of what looks good on the individual. Always go with what looks good on you, not what any body else says you should do. Ultimately looking your very best should be what's important anyway!

It's all about finding that special person who gives you butterflies! Love is finding someone you connect with on every level. And things such as age, looks and finances are superficial.